Putting God In your Relationships
About the Relatinship, in your relationship...
This video I compiled for the party that my Family had put together earlier this summer on August 25th for My Mom and Dad's 25th Anniversary celebration, and I had a lot of fun putting it together.
The video itself means a lot to me, but means even more to my parents. But after thinking about why it may mean so much to them and then throwing the idea in the air I wonder,...why is it their relationship has stood the test of time?
Well my Dad would say that the answer is simply that from the beginning he told my Mom, "you either take me or leave me!" and she agreed.
Then I asked both of them and they came to the conclusive answer, which was summed up in one word, which is "God."
In the past, their has been a couple of relationships I have had, failures...practically like an airplane crash, they were that bad, but there is a reason for this. Now your thinking well your going to say that its because God was not there...well that would be part of it.
The other part that in the relationships I have been in, I have hung my stars heavily on the other person, and they would do the same to me. As a result all of those stars get juggled around and what happens, well someone messes up, usually both people. Then all the stars hit the ground.
There has been so, so, many disappointments, but the reason for that is I hung the stars in the wrong place. I never gave them into the hands of one who could hold the weight, but there is one in God that can hold those stars, I know this for a fact, because I know he was the one who physically put stars in the sky, so I know that he is willing to emotionally hold the stars I am hanging.
In a relationship, in even a family atmosphere, God must be the central figure. We must have the strength, the courage to trust in Him.
God is part of a Love triangle, in a triangle there are three central points.
On the left is you, the right your significant other, the only way you can travel is up or down. If you travel down you travel further apart, if you travel towards each other you cross paths.
Think of this,if you travel up, you will meet a stop at the one who is the master of Love, because He is the one who created the essence of Love, thats God.
God is part of the greatest love story of All-Time.
When you meet God in your relationship, your relationship will begin, and thats where the adventure will start.
What are you looking for in a relationship? are you approaching your realationships in the way that is pleasing to God?
God is Love Trust in Him to help you in your relatonships, I have made mistakes in relationships, but I am happy to know that now my triangle is heading towards God...
posted by Darrell @ 12:45 PM
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